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The Seven Desires of Every Heart

Released by Zondervan Publishing in September 2008, this book will be helpful for couples and individuals looking to better understand their own needs, and the needs of people around them.

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Here is what Zondervan Publishing says about the book: Using stories, Biblical references, and sound psychological principles, the Laasers explore human relationships by examining seven desires we all share: to be heard, affirmed, blessed, safe, touched, chosen, and included ... This book is for spouses longing to connect and communicate on a deeper level, for parents who want to be more attuned to their children, for teachers needing healthy ways to motivate students, for pastors and church leaders struggling to develop greater insight into increasingly diverse congregations, and for everyone seeking a richer and more intimate relationship with God. This book is also available in Spanish - see below.

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Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction

With today's rampant availability of Internet pornography, sexual addiction has become a national epidemic that affects up to 10 percent of Christians. As devastating as any drug habit, it brings heartbreak and despair to those it entangles.

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But there is help for men and women caught in sexual addiction's downward spiral. This book offers a path that leads beyond compulsive thoughts and behaviors to healing and transformation. Sensitive to the shame of sexual addiction without minimizing its sinfulness, Dr. Laaser traces the roots of the problem, discusses its patterns and impact, and maps out a biblical approach to self-control and sexual integrity. Previously titled Faithful and True, this revision includes an all-new section that deals with sexual addiction in the church. This book is also available in Spanish - see below

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Faithful and True: Workbook

This is the original workbook that accompanies Dr. Laaser's original book. It contains writing exercises and Scriptural reference for addicts to work with so as to better understand the nature of their own problems and how to find healing.

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The workbook contains 12 units that each contain five lessons. This workbook has been used for years by support groups in which the members study and work on the material together. This is the first time that Dr. Laaser described his model of healthy sexuality. Six of the units focus on how to develop healthy sexuality in a person's life. These units have also helped spouses of addicts. This is also the first time that he described how to build trust back into relationships.

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Shattered Vows

If you have been devastated by your husband's sexual betrayal-whether an isolated incident or a long-term pattern of addiction-you need to know you don't have to live as a victim.

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If you choose to stay in your marriage, you have options other than punishing, tolerating, or ignoring your spouse; in fact, extraordinary growth awaits a woman willing to deal with the pain of her husband's struggles with sexual purity. Even if a spouse will not participate in a program for healing, a woman who has been sexually betrayed can change her own life in powerful and permanent ways. This sensitive book provides practical tools to help you make wise and empowering decisions, emotional tools to develop greater intimacy in your life, and spiritual tools to transform your suffering. Debra Laaser's personal journey through betrayal, her extensive work with hundreds of hurting women, and her intimate marriage two decades after the disclosure of her husband's infidelity provide meaningful answers to the questions that arise amid the complex fallout of broken vows. The pain endured from sexual betrayal can break your heart, but it does not need to break your life. This book is also available in Spanish - see below.

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Talking to Your Kids About Sex

In this book Dr. Laaser speaks to parents about how to talk with their children about sexuality. It contains his model of healthy sexuality and explains at various age levels what lessons and messages kids need to be taught.

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Borrowing from concepts of how children develop emotionally, physically, and spiritually he uses sample conversations to teach how to model and teach healthy sexuality. This book also contains a chapter about how to talk to each other as husband and wife about sexuality and a chapter on how to have safe conversations. One of the basic themes of this book is that the greatest enemy of sexual health is silence and that if parents don't talk to their kids about basic biblical and moral values, the world will teach them incorrect messages.

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Restoring the Soul of the Church

This book is a collection of chapters by many national experts that Dr. Laaser edited with his colleague Nancy Hopkins. It describes the devastation that can happen to a church congregation when a pastor sexually sins and is removed from the church.

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Various chapters deal with the nature of this problem, what happens to various groups in the church, and how a church can pursue a plan of healing. This book has been used by leadership teams around the world to deal head on with this issue. Dr. Laaser and his team conducted early research on how damaging this problem can be and how divisive to church if not treated.

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The Pornography Trap

Written by Dr. Laaser with Dr. Ralph Earle. It addressed the problem of pornography addiction, especially on the Internet, and other sexual addictions. It was especially written for pastors and Christian leaders.

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Stories are used throughout to illustrate basic concepts. This book includes chapters on how to develop intimacy, find accountability, and grow spiritually as the ways to find fidelity from sexual sin and addiction. Readers will also find the chapters on the role of trauma in addiction and the path of healing from trauma as being a vital contribution to the healing journey.

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The L.I.F.E. Guide for Spouses

This workbook for wives of sex addicts can be ordered on this site. An extensive description and excerpts from it can be found on the L.I.F.E Ministries website, www.freedomeveryday.org. This is a great resource, written by Melissa Haas and edited by Mark Laaser.

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It is part of the LIFE series of workbooks for men, women, spouses, and couples struggling with sex addiction, and is the primary resource we encourage spouses to work through. It is intended for use in conjunction with support groups for healing and support, but can also be helpful for self-study purposes if groups are not available in your area.

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The L.I.F.E. Guide for Men

This workbook can be ordered on this site. An extensive description and excerpts from it can be found on the L.I.F.E Ministries website, www.freedomeveryday.org. This is the first of a series of workbooks for men, women, spouses, and couples.

This book is also available in Spanish.  Call our office at 952-746-3880 to order

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It is intended for support groups to use to find healing, fellowship, and accountability with each other. The workbook contains a chapter on Dr. Laaser's newest teaching on accountability based on the book of Nehemiah.

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Accountability According to the Book of Nehemiah

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In these recordings, Dr. Laaser describes basic principles of accountability that are important for all recovering and healing people. He uses the biblical story of Nehemiah and the rebuilding of the wall of Jerusalem to reveal biblical truth about these principles.

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Disc one contains his teaching from the first four chapters of the book, Disc two comprises Dr. Laaser's teaching from Nehemiah, chapters 5 and 6. In both discs he discusses common mistakes that are made by recovering people and the hard work that is necessary to overcome them.

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The Beginning Journey: 3 Spiritual Questions

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In this CD Dr. Laaser asks 3 spiritual questions that are essential to beginning the journey of recovery and healing from addiction and co-addiction.

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Based on three chapters from the Gospel of John, the questions are "Do you want to get well," "What are you thirsty for," and "What are you willing to die for?" Listeners new to the process of change and healing will be challenged to think and pray about deepening their faith as a foundation for the journey ahead.

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Healthy Sexuality

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This CD is a recording of a live presentation Dr. Laaser gave to students at Bethel University in St. Paul, MN. In it, he speaks frankly of the challenge for students to come to terms with their sexual desires, questions, and temptations in a culture saturated with sex and church environments that struggle to speak honestly about sexual issues.

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He relates his own struggles growing up, and the lessons he's learned, offering hope for sexual health and purity in an unhealthy and impure world. This is great gift for any high school graduate or college student, but is also appropriate for young adults in non-campus settings.

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Coping with Trauma: The 8 Reactions

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Trauma plays an important role in the development of addiction and relationship distance and conflict. In this CD Dr. Laaser describes eight ways that we "react" or cope with trauma.

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Trauma can best be defined as the emotional reaction we have when memories of wounds are "triggered" by others and by external events. It is important to understand how a person reacts and copes. From this place of understanding, emotional healing can proceed and healthy choices can be made.

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Dr. Laaser’s Story: The Wounds of Trauma

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The Role of Fantasy in Addiction

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This CD contains ground-breaking teaching from Dr. Mark Laaser on the role that fantasy plays in sexual addiction.

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Our fantasies (both sexual and non-sexual) are windows that reveal our soul's deepest longings and hurts. Instead of trying to overcome the power of fantasy by repressing the thoughts, Dr. Laaser suggests that we seek to learn from them. When we understand and find healing from the soul wounds that are the root of these longings, the power of the fantasies is reduced dramatically.

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The Quick-Reference Guide to Sexuality & Relationship Counseling

One of the foremost counseling needs of our day is help with sexuality and relationship issues.  Those who are faced with such challenging concerns can readily use expert help with the problems that people bring to them. This book provides the answers giving pastors, counselors, and everyday believers the information they need to help congregants, clients, and friends with their most intimate issues.

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This guide addresses 40 topics including: sexual expectations and satisfaction; infidelity, forgiveness, and trust; sexual addictions; gender identity issues; and raising sexually healthy kids. Each topic covered follows a helpful eight-part outline and identifies typical symptoms and patterns, definitions and key thoughts, questions to ask, directions for the conversation, action steps, biblical insights, prayer starters, and recommended resources.

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Los Siete Deseos de Todo Corazon

Lanzado por la casa editorial Zondervan en Septiembre del 2008, este libro sera de gran ayuda a parejas e individuos que buscan entender tanto su propias necesidades como las necesidades de quienes los rodean.

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Si usted ha sido devastada por la traicion sexual de su esposo-ya sea un incidente aislado o un patron de adicion de largo plazo-necesitas saber que no tienes que vivir como una victima.

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Como Sanar las Heridas de la Adiccion Sexual

Con la disponibilidad generalizada de la pornografia en Internet, la adiccion sexual se ha convertido en una epidemia nacional que afecta al diez or ciento de los cristianos.  Tan devastadora como cualquier drogadiccion tra anqustia y quebranto al alma a todos los involucrados.

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Open Hearts…Renewing Relationships

This is a workbook for couples written by Dr. Laaser, his wife Debbie, and their friend and colleague Dr. Patrick Carnes.  It describes the porblem that couples experience when one or both of them is an addict

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Each chapter of this book contains writing exercises that couples can do with each other. The purpose of the exercises is to restore relationships and to help them build healthier, more spiritually and emotionally intimate marriages. This book has often been used by groups of couples that seek to work through it together and to have fellowship and accountability with each other.

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Promesas Quebrantadas

Si usted ha sido devastada por la traicion sexual de su esposo-ya sea un incidente aislado o un patron de adicion de largo plazo-necesitas saber que no tienes que vivir como una victima.

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The Seven Priniciples of Highly Accountable Men

It's hard to admit fault, defeat, or weakness, but the reality is we need each other.  People are broken.  People have shame.  Shame leads many of us to believe that not even God can love us.  But shame is a biblical emotion and can remind us that we need God in our lives.  In truth, we can change.   "The 7 Principles of Highly Accountable Men" is designed to help you do just that.

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Change is a process and often takes longer than you may think; for many of us it is a lifetime journey. In this book, Dr. Laaser uses Scripture and traditional twelve-step programs to encourage personal change. These principles can be applicable to both men and women seeking accountability in their lives.

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Taking Every Thought Captive

Lust, greed, pride, arrogance...Where does it all come from?  We are facing the same kind of moral decline that was the ruin of countless cultures before us.  In a world full of immorality, how do we take the first steps toward change?  Every temptation begins with a thought.  There has never been a more difficult time to resist temptations of all kinds.  Taking your thoughts captive is essential in today's world; the mind can be either evil, according to the ways of the world, or good, as it is transformed into God's will.  In "Taking Every Thought Captive", you are invited on a journey of restoration, obedience and acountability.

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Learn about what true obedience to Christ really is and how to incorporate it into our own lives. It is possible to lead a life that is free of evil thoughts.

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Becoming a Man of Valor

Gone are the days of knights and chivalry, but that hasn't changed God's vision of you as a man of valor.  Integrity and honor are elusive in a world that has lost its moral compass, yet every man should strive to possess those qualities.  In Latin, integrity means being a whole person, becoming complete with no cracks or fissures.  Having integrity means we will act at all times according to our faith.  The Hebrew word for honor was an expression of value and worth for others.  Both of these qualities can be seen in Jesus' interactions with others in the gospel of John.  "Becoming a Man of Valor" will take you on a journey to engage this wisdom from the life of Jesus.

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While the title of this book is directed towards men, the principles included are applicable to both men and women seeking integrity and honor in their lives.

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